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When Self-Limiting Beliefs Try To Keep You Small
Why self-limiting beliefs show up during change, how they hold men back, and what helps us step forward with confidence and integrity.

Stephen
3 min read


Supporting Men: Why We Need to Do Therapy Differently
This week’s blog is a write-up of my presentation at the Association for Outdoor Therapy Conference. It explores how Walk and Talk, Paddleboard Therapy, and other active approaches can create the right conditions for men to open up, reconnect, and heal.

Stephen
4 min read


When Imposter Syndrome Shows Up
Struggling with imposter syndrome? Discover how movement, nature, and Walk and Talk Therapy in the Lake District can help men find clarity and confidence.

Stephen
4 min read


“Where a man’s wound is, that’s where his genius will be.” Turning Pain into Men's Healing
Many men carry wounds that run deeper than they realise - old pain, shame, or loss that still shapes how they live. At Stand Tall Therapy in Cumbria, we explore how men can transform those emotional wounds into strength, purpose, and connection. Drawing on Robert Bly’s Iron John, this article looks at men’s healing, trauma recovery, and the power of nature-based therapy and men’s groups to turn pain into purpose.

Stephen
2 min read


Beyond the Labels: Not Broken, Not Fixed – Just Unfolding
Walking through the Valley of Desolation I was reminded how nature holds both the memory of the storm and the beauty of renewal. This reflection explores how the labels we carry - from diagnoses to the stories we tell ourselves - can shape, limit, or liberate us. Drawing on my own experience of PTSD recovery and my work in men’s mental health, I look at how we can honour our past without being defined by it, and how healing begins when we remember who we are beneath the word

Stephen
4 min read


Men and Loneliness: Who’s Really Got Your Back?
Many men say they have no close friends. Discover why friendship gets harder with age, and how men’s groups help rebuild real connection.

Stephen
4 min read


Stand Tall Starts With The Basics
Feeling overloaded? Stand tall by returning to the basics: sleep, movement, time outdoors, steady nutrition, boundaries, and good people around you.

Stephen
4 min read


Overwhelm: More Than Just Feeling Stressed
Discover what overwhelm really is, the neuroscience behind it, signs to watch for, and practical tools men can use to manage it and protect their mental health.

Stephen
2 min read


"I’m Just Drifting…”
Many men feel like they’re drifting through life. Discover how to realign with your values and start living a life that feels like yours.

Stephen
4 min read


Unpacking My Conversation on The Hurt Locker Podcast
I’ve followed The Hurt Locker Podcast from the beginning. It first came onto my radar during a period of personal uncertainty, and I was immediately struck by the honesty of the conversations, the diversity of guests, the humour, and the empathy behind Yinka’s style. So, when I was invited to take part, I said yes. I wanted to step into the Hurt Locker to open up about what it means to support men in moving from disconnection to presence in a way that’s grounded, compassionat

Stephen
3 min read


How Nature Heals: Why Men Need Time Outdoors for Mental Health and Nervous System Reset
Discover how nature supports men’s mental health by regulating the nervous system, reducing stress, and offering space to reconnect. Learn why getting outside - even briefly - can be a powerful reset.

Stephen
4 min read


The Mental Health Benefits of Nature: How Time Outdoors Supports the Brain and Body
Spending time in Nature and green spaces reduces activity in the amygdala – the brain’s fear centre – and boosts areas associated with calm, empathy, and focus.

Stephen
3 min read


Why Men Open Up When Walking Side-by-Side
Have you ever noticed how men tend to open up more when they’re walking side by side with someone, rather than sitting across a table? Whether it’s during a walk; working on a car; or sitting together on a long drive, men often find it easier to talk when facing the world shoulder-to-shoulder. It’s not just anecdotal - there’s science behind it.

Stephen
4 min read


Working with Men: A Different Approach
Discover a different approach to men's mental health. Learn how Walk and Talk Therapy creates space for men to heal, connect, and stand tall.

Stephen
3 min read


The Call to Adventure: Why Men Need Risk to Thrive
Adventure isn’t just about climbing mountains or jumping out of planes. It’s about stepping into the unknown.

Stephen
5 min read


A FULL DAY to WALK & TALK
Full-day walk & talk therapy sessions, offer physical space & blend the healing powers of nature, movement, and uninterrupted dialogue.

Stephen
3 min read


Cold Water, Clear Mind
There’s something about the icy embrace of cold water that brings me into the present and resets everything.

Stephen
3 min read


Sensing Danger: Understanding the Negativity Bias and the Autonomic Nervous System
Have you ever been somewhere familiar, with people you trust, yet felt a sudden sense of danger?

Stephen
4 min read


Grounding: The Healing Power of Nature
This week I was approached by a friend to join a panel discussion at the Kendal Mountain Festival to give my thoughts as a Walk and Talk...

Stephen
4 min read


Rooting Yourself in Nature: Grounding Exercises
In today’s busy world, grounding can help us reconnect with our bodies and the natural world.

Stephen
2 min read

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