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“I Should Have Known Better”: When the Nervous System Takes Over
"I should have known better." That was the thought that hit me once I’d begun to settle. I talk about trauma. I support clients to...

Stephen
4 min read


How Nature Heals: Why Men Need Time Outdoors for Mental Health and Nervous System Reset
Discover how nature supports men’s mental health by regulating the nervous system, reducing stress, and offering space to reconnect. Learn why getting outside - even briefly - can be a powerful reset.

Stephen
4 min read


The Mental Health Benefits of Nature: How Time Outdoors Supports the Brain and Body
Spending time in Nature and green spaces reduces activity in the amygdala – the brain’s fear centre – and boosts areas associated with calm, empathy, and focus.

Stephen
3 min read


“I’ll Be Fine!” – Why Men Push Through When They're Not Well... and What It’s Costing Us
Why Do Men Push Through When They Should Stop? It isn’t just about ignoring a cold or powering through a cough. It’s about how men are often conditioned to override their emotional and physical needs in the name of “coping” or “getting on with it.”

Stephen
4 min read


Why Men Open Up When Walking Side-by-Side
Have you ever noticed how men tend to open up more when they’re walking side by side with someone, rather than sitting across a table? Whether it’s during a walk; working on a car; or sitting together on a long drive, men often find it easier to talk when facing the world shoulder-to-shoulder. It’s not just anecdotal - there’s science behind it.

Stephen
4 min read


Working with Men: A Different Approach
Discover a different approach to men's mental health. Learn how Walk and Talk Therapy creates space for men to heal, connect, and stand tall.

Stephen
3 min read


Understanding Paternal Postnatal Depression
When we talk about postnatal depression, we almost always focus on mothers. But the truth is, 1 in 10 fathers also experience postnatal depression. This is known as Paternal Postnatal Depression and while it may be less visible, its impact is just as profound. Yet, it remains largely hidden, often dismissed as stress or typical 'dad struggles.'.

Stephen
3 min read


When Self-Doubt Becomes a Barrier: How Imposter Syndrome Silently Impacts Men
Imposter syndrome arises from a disconnection between internal self-perception and external validation. Men, in particular, are often raised with subtle but powerful messages: you must be competent, confident, and emotionally self-reliant. These unspoken rules leave little room for vulnerability or self-doubt

Stephen
2 min read


Why So Many Men Don’t Use Workplace Mental Health Support – and What Employers Can Do About It
Discover why men aren’t using workplace mental health support and what businesses can do to create a culture where male employees feel safe and supported.

Stephen
3 min read


The Call to Adventure: Why Men Need Risk to Thrive
Adventure isn’t just about climbing mountains or jumping out of planes. It’s about stepping into the unknown.

Stephen
5 min read


Work, Identity, and Men’s Wellbeing: The Conversation We’re Still Not Having
For many self-employed men, especially those running their own businesses, work's more than a job - it’s an expression of identity & purpose

Stephen
4 min read


Healing the Hidden Wound: The Impact of Maternal Attachment Trauma on Men
Maternal Attachment Trauma is one of the deepest yet least discussed emotional wounds impacting men today.

Stephen
4 min read


Gareth Southgate's Message on Belief & Resilience: Why Identity, Connection, and Culture Matter
Gareth Southgate’s 2025 Richard Dimbleby Lecture highlights crucial themes that resonate deeply with anyone passionate about men's...

Stephen
2 min read


A FULL DAY to WALK & TALK
Full-day walk & talk therapy sessions, offer physical space & blend the healing powers of nature, movement, and uninterrupted dialogue.

Stephen
3 min read


Men, Money and Mental Health: The Silent Struggle
Have you ever felt your sense of self-worth rise and fall with your bank balance? You're not alone.

Stephen
3 min read


Feeling Lost? How Dissonance Guides Men Toward Purpose
There are moments in life when everything feels off. You’re successful on paper, but something isn’t sitting right. his is dissonance.

Stephen
4 min read


When Pain Stays Silent: Addressing Self-Harm in Men
Self-harm is not just a teenage issue or something that only affects women! My experience working with men supports research showing that th

Stephen
4 min read


Why Men Need to Talk About the Trauma of Sexual Abuse
Talking about the trauma of sexual abuse and seeking therapy are not signs of weakness; they are acts of profound courage.

Stephen
4 min read


Stop Treating Men Like Women in Therapy
For too long, mental health support has been designed with a one-size-fits-all approach - an approach that often overlooks specific needs

Stephen
4 min read


Trapped in the Grey: Functional Depression
Ever feel like you’re just going through the motions? You’re holding it together - work, bills, responsibilities - but something feels… off.

Stephen
3 min read

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