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Standing Tall Under Pressure: What Burnout Is Really Telling You
Discover the real signs of burnout in men, how it shows up in the body and nervous system, and practical ways to reset, rebalance, and recover

Stephen
5 min read


Strong on the Outside, Hurting on the Inside: Suicide in Men
Suicide doesn’t always look like despair. Discover how men mask pain, why stereotypes harm, and how connection can save lives.

Stephen
4 min read


Looking Beyond the Headlines: Why We Need to Talk About Suicide - Especially with Boys and Men
Male suicide is complex. Explore research on why men struggle, hidden signs, and how conversations can save lives.

Stephen
4 min read


Men and Loneliness: Who’s Really Got Your Back?
Many men say they have no close friends. Discover why friendship gets harder with age, and how men’s groups help rebuild real connection.

Stephen
4 min read


Unpacking My Conversation on The Hurt Locker Podcast
I’ve followed The Hurt Locker Podcast from the beginning. It first came onto my radar during a period of personal uncertainty, and I was immediately struck by the honesty of the conversations, the diversity of guests, the humour, and the empathy behind Yinka’s style. So, when I was invited to take part, I said yes. I wanted to step into the Hurt Locker to open up about what it means to support men in moving from disconnection to presence in a way that’s grounded, compassionat

Stephen
3 min read


When Pain Stays Silent: Addressing Self-Harm in Men
Self-harm is not just a teenage issue or something that only affects women! My experience working with men supports research showing that th

Stephen
4 min read


Why Men Need to Talk About the Trauma of Sexual Abuse
Talking about the trauma of sexual abuse and seeking therapy are not signs of weakness; they are acts of profound courage.

Stephen
4 min read


The Deadly Trap: Why Male Suicide is More Than Just a 'Talk' Issue
When we hear about male suicide, it's often: men need to talk. While opening up is important, this narrative oversimplifies a complex issue.

Stephen
3 min read


Why Men Become Suicidal - Part 4: Insights from Baumeister’s Psychological Pain Theory
Baumeister’s Psychological Pain theory helps me understand the deep emotional pain that can lead someone to see suicide as their only escape

Stephen
5 min read


Why Men Become Suicidal - Part 3: Social Pain
We all have a need to belong but when people feel disconnected, rejected, or isolated, it can lead to severe emotional distress.

Stephen
4 min read


Why Men Become Suicidal - Part 2: Suicide is Pain
For quite a while now I have been thinking about the voices that we hear in the social media world of suicide prevention. It seems like...

Stephen
5 min read


Why Men Become Suicidal - Part 1: Suicidal Risk
It's really hard to say why a man thinks about suicide or goes through with it, but understanding more can make a real difference.

Stephen
4 min read

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