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The True Cost of the “Men Would Rather…” Narrative
Why men avoid therapy - and the hidden cost of waiting until crisis. A grounded look at strength, stigma and early support for men.

Stephen
4 min read


Why So Many Capable Men Feel Stuck in Habits They Don’t Talk About
Porn addiction in men, compulsive habits, and why this isn’t a willpower issue Many men who seek therapy are capable, responsible, and outwardly functioning well. They hold demanding jobs, show up for family, and carry significant responsibility. From the outside, life can look stable or even successful. Yet privately, many feel increasingly disconnected, conflicted, or stuck. In my work with men, I often hear about habits they feel uneasy about but rarely talk about. Pattern

Stephen
4 min read


Is There Such a Thing as a Good Addiction?
Explore whether a “good addiction” exists. Learn the difference between passion and addiction, with insights from Dr Gabor Maté on habits, freedom, and healing.

Stephen
4 min read


The opposite of Addiction is Connection
Rather than looking at addiction as substance abuse or abusive behaviour it's time to look at the lack of human connection underneath

Stephen
3 min read


Overdose & Trauma
The Hidden Crisis You Need to Know About 31st August - International Overdose Awareness Day Introduction In the shadow of the global...

Stephen
3 min read


How Addiction Takes Hold: Understanding the Addicted Brain
Have you ever wondered why breaking free from addiction can feel like an uphill battle? It's because addiction doesn't just affect your...

Stephen
2 min read

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