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Unpacking My Conversation on The Hurt Locker Podcast
I’ve followed The Hurt Locker Podcast from the beginning. It first came onto my radar during a period of personal uncertainty, and I was immediately struck by the honesty of the conversations, the diversity of guests, the humour, and the empathy behind Yinka’s style. So, when I was invited to take part, I said yes. I wanted to step into the Hurt Locker to open up about what it means to support men in moving from disconnection to presence in a way that’s grounded, compassionat
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Burnout Doesn’t Always Look Like Collapse:
But here’s the truth: burnout doesn’t care how strong, capable, or successful you are. In fact, the more responsibility you carry, the more vulnerable you are.
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4 min read


What's the Problem with Being the 'Nice Guy'?
In this article I discuss what it means to be the nice guy, where the behaviour comes from and the emotional cost and what a healthy version of masculinity looks like.
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5 min read


Why Men Open Up When Walking Side-by-Side
Have you ever noticed how men tend to open up more when they’re walking side by side with someone, rather than sitting across a table? Whether it’s during a walk; working on a car; or sitting together on a long drive, men often find it easier to talk when facing the world shoulder-to-shoulder. It’s not just anecdotal - there’s science behind it.
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Working with Men: A Different Approach
Discover a different approach to men's mental health. Learn how Walk and Talk Therapy creates space for men to heal, connect, and stand tall.
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3 min read


Understanding Paternal Postnatal Depression
When we talk about postnatal depression, we almost always focus on mothers. But the truth is, 1 in 10 fathers also experience postnatal depression. This is known as Paternal Postnatal Depression and while it may be less visible, its impact is just as profound. Yet, it remains largely hidden, often dismissed as stress or typical 'dad struggles.'.
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3 min read


Gareth Southgate's Message on Belief & Resilience: Why Identity, Connection, and Culture Matter
Gareth Southgate’s 2025 Richard Dimbleby Lecture highlights crucial themes that resonate deeply with anyone passionate about men's...
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Feeling Lost? How Dissonance Guides Men Toward Purpose
There are moments in life when everything feels off. You’re successful on paper, but something isn’t sitting right. his is dissonance.
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Why Music Moves Us
Music isn’t just sound - it’s connection, courage, and transformation. It binds us in ways that words can’t.
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Post-Hospital Mental Health
Supporting a Friend or Loved One After a Traumatic Hospital Stay: How You Can Help I recently had a call from a lady whose partner has...
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BROTHERHOOD: Finding Your Tribe
In a world where men are taught to handle things on their own, having a sense of community can be life-changing.
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4 min read

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