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Why Men Become Suicidal - Part 4: Insights from Baumeister’s Psychological Pain Theory
Baumeister’s Psychological Pain theory helps me understand the deep emotional pain that can lead someone to see suicide as their only escape

Stephen
5 min read


Understanding How Counselling Can Help You Heal from Trauma
If you're reading this, you might be someone who has experienced trauma and is considering counselling - or maybe you're just curious...

Stephen
4 min read


The impact of trauma on teenagers
Understanding the impact of trauma on teenagers is vital to help them navigate feelings, so trauma doesn't become stuck in their bodies.

Stephen
3 min read


Understanding Male Trauma
A Guide for Everyone Trauma doesn't discriminate. It quietly seeps into the lives of people regardless of their gender, age, or...

Stephen
3 min read


How can I understand and cope with flashbacks?
I see flashbacks as a sort of sudden, involuntary time travel! They whisk you away from the present moment and plunge you back into a...

Stephen
5 min read


Understanding Polyvagal theory - Understanding Trauma
First written about in the 1990s by Dr. Stephen Porges, Polyvagal Theory is all about understanding how our nervous system - especially...

Stephen
5 min read


Managing the Stress Response from Historic Trauma
Recent events in my life have made me stop and think about how the past has affected the way I respond to stress and how important it is...

Stephen
3 min read


Why men need to talk about the trauma of sexual abuse…
...and how therapy can help overcome the shame. Sexual abuse is a deeply traumatic experience that leaves scars not just on the body but...

Stephen
3 min read


A Person-Centred Approach to Trauma
Imagine walking into a space where you're seen not as a collection of symptoms or problems to be fixed, but as a person with a story,...

Stephen
2 min read


Understanding Psychosis
Experiencing a psychotic episode can be like finding yourself in the middle of a stormy sea without a compass.

Stephen
3 min read


Trauma: The best explanation I've ever heard
For years after things fell apart for me, I struggled to understand why I continued to struggle - despite having seen therapists and been...

Stephen
3 min read

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